Success isn’t built in isolation—it thrives in the spaces between us.
In an era where transactions are often prioritised over relationships, it’s time to reflect on how we connect, collaborate, and cultivate positive relationships through networking.
A truly sustainable network isn’t just about what you get—it’s about what you give, and how you nurture relationships with authenticity, consistency, and trust.
But let’s take it one step further: it’s not just who you know—it’s how you nurture, navigate, and nourish those relationships. For CEOs, entrepreneurs, and business owners, understanding the transformative power of networks is essential.

Our network of relationships at home, or at work, are like a spider’s web, intricate and delicate, yet incredibly strong. Each strand represents a connection, and when woven together, they form a resilient structure that can withstand significant pressures. This is the essence of networks in business.
They’re not just about accumulating contacts or followers; they’re about building relationships that are authentic, meaningful, and mutually beneficial.
Research backs this up. A study by Harvard Business Review found that leaders who actively cultivate diverse networks are more innovative and adaptable. They’re better at problem-solving because they have access to a broader range of perspectives and experiences. This isn’t just about having a large LinkedIn network; it’s about engaging with your network in meaningful ways that foster collaboration and growth.
The Currency of Connections: Giving Before Receiving
Think of networking as an ecosystem. The healthiest ones thrive on mutual exchange, where each member contributes, not just extracts. Sustainable networking is rooted in generosity—offering knowledge, introductions, or support without expecting immediate returns.
Top-tier leaders understand this dynamic. They’re the ones who share industry insights, mentor rising talents, and open doors for others, knowing that reciprocity follows naturally. When you give first, you don’t just create goodwill—you build a network that wants to see you succeed.
How to Give Strategically:
• Offer insights: Share trends, expertise, or lessons learned—people remember those who add value.
• Make meaningful introductions: Facilitating the right connections strengthens your position as a trusted resource.
• Support without an agenda: Celebrate others’ wins, endorse their work, and be a genuine advocate.
The Art of Receiving: Creating Space for Growth
Great leaders know how to ask with intention and receive with gratitude. The key is to build relationships where value flows in both directions, fostering collaboration rather than one-sided dependency.
While giving lays the foundation, receiving is equally vital. Many entrepreneurs struggle with accepting help, fearing it makes them seem weak or dependent. But the reality? Success is rarely a solo pursuit.
How to Receive with Confidence:
• Ask with clarity: When seeking support, be specific—people want to help but need direction.
• Acknowledge contributions: A simple thank-you or public recognition strengthens future collaborations.
• Implement and share results: When someone offers advice or resources, apply them and provide feedback—it deepens trust.
The Amplifier: How Social Media Elevates Sustainable Networks
Social media has transformed networking from a local game to a global movement. But success isn’t about vanity metrics—it’s about meaningful engagement and leveraging platforms to strengthen authentic connections.
Social media, often dismissed as a mere marketing tool or a time sink, holds the potential to shape not just business success but holistic, balanced success. Done right, social media can be a force multiplier for the give-and-receive dynamic:
Ways to Use Social Media for Sustainable Networking:
• Showcase generosity: Share others’ work, highlight key conversations, and give credit where it’s due.
• Engage meaningfully: Move beyond likes—comment thoughtfully, join discussions, and initiate value-driven conversations.
• Build trust through consistency: Whether through insightful posts, live sessions, or shared resources, showing up regularly cements your presence.
• Transform followers into collaborators: Many of today’s top partnerships started with a simple online exchange—treat social media as an open invitation to co-create.
Social media platforms like LinkedIn, or Instagram aren’t just digital billboards for self-promotion. They’re ecosystems where relationships are built, ideas are exchanged, and opportunities are discovered. But to harness the true power of social media, one must approach it with intention and authenticity.
Sara Blakely, the founder of Spanx, as an example. Blakely’s candid, relatable posts on Instagram have not only humanised her brand but also built a loyal community of followers who feel personally connected to her journey. By sharing her successes and struggles, Blakely has created a narrative that resonates with her audience, turning customers into advocates and followers into friends.
Build Networks That Last
Success isn’t a solo climb—it’s a shared journey. The most influential entrepreneurs and leaders don’t just collect contacts—they cultivate communities.
By mastering the balance of giving and receiving, and leveraging social media as a catalyst, you can build a network that’s not just wide, but deep, resilient, and genuinely invested in mutual success.
A study by Sprout Social revealed that:
64% of consumers want brands to connect with them, and 70% feel more connected to brands whose CEO is active on social media.
This isn’t surprising. In a world inundated with polished marketing messages, authenticity stands out. Leaders who show up as their true selves online build trust and loyalty—key ingredients for holistic success.
Self-Leadership and Authenticity
While external networks are crucial, the most important network you’ll ever build is the one within yourself. This is where self-leadership, and inner growth come into play.
Self-leadership is about taking responsibility for your own development, setting clear intentions, and aligning your actions with your values. Because when you’re grounded in your purpose and values, your interactions—both online and offline—become more authentic and impactful.
Oprah Winfrey, a master of self-leadership. Her ability to connect deeply with others—whether in person or through the screen—stems from her profound self-awareness and inner work. Oprah’s success isn’t just about her external network; it’s about the authenticity she brings to every interaction.
The Science of Connection: Why Networks Matter
Why do networks have such a profound impact on success and wellbeing? The answer lies in both psychology and neuroscience.
Human beings are wired for connection. According to research by Dr. Matthew Lieberman, a social cognitive neuroscientist at UCLA, our brains are fundamentally social. The same neural networks that process physical pain are activated when we experience social rejection. Conversely, positive social interactions release oxytocin, the “love hormone,” which fosters trust and bonding.
In business, this means that strong networks aren’t just beneficial—they’re essential. They provide emotional support during challenging times, foster collaboration and innovation, and open doors to new opportunities. Leaders who prioritise relationship-building are more resilient and adaptable because they have a support system to lean on.
Consider the phenomenon of "Dunbar’s Number," a theory proposed by British anthropologist Robin Dunbar. It suggests that humans can maintain around 150 meaningful relationships. In the context of social media, this means that while you might have thousands of followers, the real impact comes from the meaningful connections you nurture within that network.
Turning Connections into Holistic Success
So, how can CEOs, entrepreneurs, and business owners leverage networks—both online and offline—for holistic success? Here are some actionable strategies:
Lead with Authenticity: Show up as your true self, both online and offline. Share your journey, including the challenges and triumphs, to build trust and authenticity.
Engage Meaningfully: Don’t just collect contacts—cultivate relationships. Engage with your network by commenting on posts, sharing valuable insights, and offering support.
Balance Inner and Outer Work: Prioritise self-leadership and inner work to ensure your external interactions are aligned with your values and purpose.
Diversify Your Network: Seek out diverse perspectives and experiences to foster innovation and adaptability.
Use Social Media Intentionally: Approach social media as a tool for building relationships and exchanging ideas, not just for self-promotion.
Invest in Real-Life Connections: While digital networks are powerful, don’t neglect face-to-face interactions. Attend networking events, join professional groups, and invest time in nurturing in-person relationships.
Practice Gratitude and Reciprocity: Show appreciation for your network and be generous with your time, knowledge, and support. The more you give, the more you receive.
By balancing external networking with inner growth, midlife leaders can navigate the digital landscape with calmfidence and purpose. Remember, it’s not just about who you know—it’s about how you connect, collaborate, and contribute. So, go forth and weave your web of success, one authentic connection at a time.
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